Sharon Dennis Wyeth

Discovering Frances

When I was growing up, I didn’t know I had Irish ancestors. Since my family was African American, I focused on my African ancestry. Though I didn’t know anything about her, I daydreamed about the first female in my family line who I was sure had come from somewhere on the African continent. But then I met a great-great aunt, Cleopatra Montgomery, who told me about my third great-grandparents Frances and Theodore. Theodore was an African American man born in Virginia. But Frances was Irish, born in County Cork, Ireland. In the middle of the nineteenth century she’d immigrated to the United States as an indentured servant.

In 2009 I traveled to County Cork, Ireland to see where my third great-grandmother Frances came from. On a blustery day I stood in Cobh Harbor, the point of departure for many people bound for America in the 19th century. I tried to find out more about Frances, what her parents’ names were and the address of the house where she lived as a child in Ireland. I haven’t gotten to the bottom of it yet. But I’ll keep trying.

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Looking for Yangke

Through a cousin’s DNA I was able to track my African ancestors to the Tikar, Fulani and Hausa tribes in Cameroon. Since receiving the results of the test, I’ve made two trips to Cameroon, the first in December 2010 and a second time in December 2011.
During my first trip, a Tikar king honored me with a Tikar name: Yangke.

 

 

 

On my second trip, a Cameroonian citizen gave me the deed to a small plot of land. My Tikar name and plot of land have helped deepen my connection to my African ancestors. Even more significant, are the Cameroonian people I’ve met who’ve reached out to me in friendship.

After the king gave me a name, he wrote it out, along with its meaning, on a small piece of paper:

“Yangke, princess born in the kingdom and chief of women.”

I keep the piece of paper with my Tikar name on my desk. It’s a precious possession. Until I discover the name of my African ancestor, I’ll call her Yangke, too.

 

On my first trip to Cameroon, I took my book “Something Beautiful” with me. After reading it at Cite de l’enfance School in the city of Kribi, I donated the book to the school’s library. I can’t wait to send them “The Granddaughter Necklace!”

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Writing Childhood
My obsession with childhood stories began at the age of two…

I’m two-years-old, sitting unashamed in a tin tub set in a shady spot on a lawn in Culpeper, Virginia. My grandmother Georgie Dennis is soaping my back with a rag and a bar of homemade soap. It’s late in the day because I can see the mountains in the distance without squinting. The feel of the warm rag gliding across my shoulder blades is pleasurable. I squirm against the tickle of dripping water. I hear Grandma’s voice, a deep cooing sound reserved for me. “That’s gamma’s girl…” she murmurs, rinsing my back.

A man appears across the field, my grandparents’ neighbor Mr. Green. I stare as he strides toward us. Even from a distance, I spot his eyes. I’ve seen them up close so I know they’re green like his name. The only eyes green eyes I’ve ever seen. From far away, I see them sparkling. With his bright eyes and coppery skin, black, curly hair, like a sheep’s and overalls I also admire, my grandparents’ neighbor is utterly fascinating.

“Mr. Green must have been a beautiful baby,” I pronounce, twisting my neck towards Grandma.

She drops the washrag. “What did you say?”

“Mr. Green must have been a beautiful baby,” I repeat in my babyish voice.

Grandma throws her arms around me. “You have to hear this, Mr. Green,” she calls out. She lifts me out of the tub and dries me off.
When Mr. Green is upon us, I’m in Grandma’s arms wrapped in a towel.

“What’s is it, Georgie?” he asks.

Grandma gives him the report. “Sharon (she pronounces it “Shurn”) said ‘Mr. Green must have been a beautiful baby!” She laughs again. “Isn’t that funny?”

Since Mr. Green is shy his laugh isn’t loud, it’s a chuckle. “Why, you’re just a baby yourself,” he tells me, leaning closer.

When I think about it now, Mr. Green was my first crush. As he strode the field in his overalls, I was imagining his childhood, what he looked like when he was two-years-old and just my size. “A beautiful baby,” I decided, like the song my daddy sang to me sometimes.

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